According to a mental-health charity in the
United Kingdom, 1 in 5 British workers said that stress had made them
physically ill during their career, and unmanageable pressure had caused 1 in 4
to cry while at work. Prescriptions for antidepressants saw an unprecedented
rise during one recent year of economic recession.
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Insecurity—financial
or otherwise
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A demanding routine
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Interpersonal
conflicts
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A traumatic experience
How has stress affected you?
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Health disorders
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Emotional exhaustion
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Sleep problems
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Depression
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Deteriorating
relationships
Stress activates an amazing system in your body—your emergency
response system. Hormones are released to increase your breathing, heart rate,
and blood pressure. In addition, reserves of blood cells and glucose flood into
your bloodstream. This cascade of reactions prepares you to deal with the stress,the stimulus causing the stress. After the stress has passed, your
body may return to normal. But when a stress remains, it can leave you
chronically anxious or tense, like a motor that stays revved up. So learning
how to deal with stress is important to both your physical and your mental
well-being.
Managing Stress
Stress in itself is not necessarily harmful.
The American Psychological Association has noted: “Stress is to the human
condition what tension is to the violin string: too little and the music is
dull and raspy; too much and the music is shrill or the string snaps. Stress can
be the kiss of death or the spice of life. The issue, really, is how to manage
it.”
Adding another dimension, people vary in
temperament and general health. So what stresses one person may not stress
another. That said, you are likely over-stressed if your regular routine makes
you so tense that you cannot relax or deal with the occasional emergency.
To help them “cope” with chronic stress, some
people turn to alcohol, drugs, or tobacco. Others begin abnormal eating
patterns or sit passively in front of a TV or computer—habits that do not
address the underlying problem but May, in fact, exacerbate it. How, then, can
we learn to manage stress effectively?
Many people have been able to manage life’s
stresses by applying the practical advice found in the Bible. Could its
tried-and-tested wisdom help you? Consider that question in the light of four
common causes of stress INSECURITY
1. INSECURITY
Not one of us has total security. Even Bible states, “time and
unexpected events overtake [us] all. How can you cope with feelings of
insecurity? Try these suggestions.
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Confide in a trusted
family member or friend. Studies show that the support of loved one consistently confers protection against
stress-related disorders. Yes, “a true friend shows love at all times, and is a
brother who is born for times of distress.”
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Do not continually
focus on worst-case scenarios. Such thinking does little more than drain
emotional reserves. And what you fear may not happen! “Never be anxious about
the next day, for the next day will have its own anxieties.”
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2. DEMANDING ROUTINE
A relentless routine of commuting, working, studying, or caring
for children or elderly parents can keep stress levels high. Moreover, stopping
some of these activities may be out of the question. What, then, can you do to
cope?
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Try to give yourself
some downtime, and get adequate rest. Set sound priorities, and adopt a modest
lifestyle. Consider simplifying your life, perhaps by reducing expenses or time
spent at work.—
3. INTERPERSONAL CONFLICTS
Conflicts with others, especially in the
workplace, can be very stressful. If you experience such difficulties, you have
a number of options that might help.
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When someone upsets
you, try to stay calm. Do not add fuel to the fire. “A mild answer turns away
rage.
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Try to settle
differences privately and respectfully, thus dignifying the other person.
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Try to gain insight
into his or her feelings and viewpoint. Such insight “slows down [our] anger”
because it puts us in the other person’s shoes, it can also help us to see
ourselves through the other person’s eyes.
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Try to forgive.
Forgiveness is not only beautiful. It is also good medicine. As reported in a
2001 study, “unforgiving thoughts” resulted in “significantly higher” blood
pressure and heart rate, whereas a forgiving attitude reduced stress.
TRAUMATIC EVENTS
“Better is a handful of
rest than two handful of hard work”. A 2008 study by British researchers. One
way to develop resilience in the face of stress, they found was to give in
some way. . to others—advice that has long been espoused.
The
best start: Making certain lifestyle changes is the best
start to relieving stress, says the National Institute of Health (NIH) US,
start with eating a well balance,healthy diet as well as getting enough sleep
and exercise, also limit caffeine and alcohol intake and don’t use nicotine,cocaine or other street drug, they also suggest taking break from work,
spending time with family or friends, learning to make things with your hands or
learning to play a musical instrument
A genuine hope and the wisdom to cope with
life’s many stresses are both priceless, and both can be found in the pages of
the Bible. Millions have already benefited from this remarkable and unique
book. You can too.
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